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It is normal for your child to feel nervous or afraid about needing surgery. There are many things that your child may be scared of before surgery. Your child may ask: � �
- Will it hurt a lot?
- Will the doctor use a needle in my skin?
- What if something goes wrong?
- Will I get well after this surgery?
- Why do I have to have this done?
The best way to get your child ready for surgery is to lower your own fears and anxiety. Learning about the surgery may help you worry less. Then you will be able to help your child get ready for the surgery. Talk to the doctor about what to expect. The doctors and nurses will answer your questions and offer support. Your child is less likely to be nervous if you are not afraid. Ease your childs fears by listening to your child's concerns and answering any questions your child may have. � �
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How to get your child ready for surgery: � �
- Ask the doctor questions to ease your concerns. Your doctor can help explain the surgery in words your child will likely understand.
- Read the patient leaflets. Talk to other people who had the same surgery.
- Use words that are on your childs level when you tell about the surgery. Do not use words that may scare your child like "the doctor will open up your tummy. " � Try using, "the doctor will fix the problem in your tummy. " �
- Be honest with your child. Tell your child there will be little or no pain at all during the surgery. The doctor will give a drug that will let your child sleep. When your child wakes up, things will be better. Tell your child you will be able to be with them after the surgery.
- Let your child know what to expect after the surgery. Make it clear that it will be important to rest for a while. This may mean no school and limited play.
- Meet with a child life specialist. This person may tell about the health problem in a way that your child may understand clearly.
- Attend a tour before surgery. This can help ease your child's fears.
- Bring your child's favorite toy, book, or blanket to the surgery. These things may give your child comfort.
- Support your child. Stay in the hospital during the surgery. Ask if you can post get well cards from friends and classmates in the room.
- Get support for you and your family if you need to. The health care team is here to help you.
Where can I learn more?
KidsHealth � �
http://kidshealth.org/parent/system/surgery/hosp_surgery.html � �
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This information is not specific medical advice and does not replace information you receive from your health care provider. This is only a brief summary of general information. It does NOT include all information about conditions, illnesses, injuries, tests, procedures, treatments, therapies, discharge instructions or life-style choices that may apply to you. You must talk with your health care provider for complete information about your health and treatment options. This information should not be used to decide whether or not to accept your health care providers advice, instructions or recommendations. Only your health care provider has the knowledge and training to provide advice that is right for you. � �
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